Be close by,

even when you’re far away

Be close by,

even when you’re far away

Be close by,

even when you’re far away

Get personalized reminders to check in with those you’re supporting after a significant death

Get personalized reminders to check in with those you’re supporting after a significant death

Get personalized reminders to check in with those you’re supporting after a significant death

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There when the initial shock goes away

There when the initial shock goes away

Communities and groups of friends using Pillar unlock an ability to support that reimagines how we can show up for those we love in time of need.

Personalized Messages

Understand grief and how to show up, personalized to your relationship with the person you’re supporting.

Sent via Text Message

We meet you where you are. Get reminded and reach out all in one place. No download necessary.

Long-term Support

Pillar reminds you to check in on important dates and regularly throughout the year, acknowledging grief is a life-long journey.

Create a page for your person who is grieving

Create a page for your person who is grieving

No matter how long it’s been since their loved one died, you can create a page for the person you’re supporting. You can then add in dates that are important to them (birthdays, death anniversary, etc...) and sign up for nudges that remind you to regularly check in on them.

Receive text message based nudges

Receive text message based nudges

Whether it’s been six weeks or six years, we’ll send you regular reminders to check in with them. Each reminder includes a snippet of information that will help you be there, written by our expert contributors.

Invite other friends who want to support

Invite other friends who want to support

It takes a village. You’re probably not the only one who wants to provide support. With Pillar, invite as many other people to support and sign up for nudges as you’d like.

What our early users have to say

What our early users have to say

We’ve worked with hundreds of people supporting a grieving person in their life.

“In the initial shock, I had no idea what to say or do. Pillar gave me the guidance and confidence I needed. They helped me understand that grief has no timeline. Now I know how important it is to keep checking in, even though it’s been over two years.”

Francis

Boise, ID

“I met my partner a few months after his sister died. At first, it felt like I had missed the time frame where I could help. Another friend introduced me to Pillar and the monthly messages have helped me ask about his sister and normalize talking about his grief.”

Asif

Pittsburgh, PA

“Before I started using Pillar, I was constantly second guessing what I was doing and saying. Now I know it’s impossible to be a perfect supporter, but you need to run towards it - not away from it.”

Clara

Austin, TX

Free to get started

Free to get started

Embrace

Embrace

For supporters who are new to this

$0

/month

Top Features:

Personalized messages

Understand grief and how to show up, personalized to your relationship with your person, the amount of time since the death, and more.

Unlimited invites

Make sure your person is supported by their entire community. Invite as many others as you’d like.

1 page

In Pillar, each page is for a person being supported. In the free plan, you can only be the owner of one page.

Uplift

For those supporting multiple people

$5

/month

Everything in Embrace, plus:

5 pages

Support up to 5 people at a time.

Set important dates

Make sure you never forget a death anniversary or other important date again.

Encircle

For community leaders

$10

/month

Everything in Uplift, plus:

Unlimited pages

Make sure everyone in your community can access this support.

Be a Pillar of Support

Be a Pillar of Support

Be a Pillar of Support

If you need guidance on how to support a grieving friend and are willing to explore and navigate the beta, we’d love to get you started.

If you need guidance on how to support a grieving friend and are willing to explore and navigate the beta, we’d love to get you started.

If you need guidance on how to support a grieving friend and are willing to explore and navigate the beta, we’d love to get you started.

Request early access

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